Caleg

Niatnya nyari streaming berita MA yang masi belom jelas diving ke laut ato dibajak, tapi semua stasiun TV berita lagi heboh hebohnya nampilin debat caleg,

Beberapa pendapatnya bingungin, beberapa so so, beberapa sok bikin kata kata diplomatis padahal kalo dipikir pikir lagi ga ada intinya. Kaya lagunya Lorde tuh..

"Making smart with their words again, well I'm bored.."

Ada juga yang narrow minded

"Saya ga setuju sistem pendaftaran kuliah pake serba online. Di kampung saya di Suaui (sensor) bahkan belum ada akses internet, gimana mereka mau bersaing sama anak kota"

Justru karena ada sistem online lah itu jadi tugas kalian nyediain teknologi ke pelosok desa, kalo mau dibuat jadul terus kapan pinternya, kapan melek teknologinya, kapan Indonesia go green  *mulai melenceng. Selain itu penerapan IT di sistem pemerintah bakal mengurangi banyak ketidak efisienan seperti transportasi untuk mengantar formulir pendaftaran, kecurangan dokumen, de el el. 

Cuma sedikit yang cerdas malem ini.

"Kenapa bisa sampe ada geng motor/ geng geng lainnya, pemuda kekurangan sarana dan prasarana untuk ngelampiasin ke arah yang lebih positif"

Simpel tapi bener, coba deh...ada ga si taman kota yang banyak mainannya (selain di surabaya), komposisi lapangan bola gratis udah cukup belom di kota kota besar yang sumpek ama toko usaha, gedung dan rumah rumah, cukup ga si jumlah akses olahraga gratis (di taman kota, dll). Intinya, fasilitas olahraga harus dibanyakin. Orang frustasi itu pelariannya salah satunya ke olahraga, kalo anak anak muda yang gabisa diem itu ga difasilitasin, ya larinya ke...yang negatif .

"Pemuda itu butuh di mentor, mentornya butuh ngereview per waktu yang ditentukan. Misalnya belajar dari perusahaan swasta, parameter mentor nya jelas, misal per tiga bulan, nanti kalo tantangan A sudah terjawab, diberi tantangan yang lebih tinggi tingkatnya"

Bener banget. Cerdas. Oke banget ini. Di perusahaan saya sekarang, presiden organisasi pemudanya kece badai, walaupun mukanya boros tapi borosnya itu ternyata larinya ke otak. Briliant. Dia buat mentoring punya sistem, arah dan output yang equal. Semua mentee harus punya sesi presentasi didepan para mentor, dan parameter penilaiannya akan jelas. Dengan cara ini effort akan terpantik dari kedua belah pihak. Yang dulu mentee nya cuma dengerin masuk kuping kanan-->nyantol dikit-->kebilas sinetron -->ilang gara gara dengerinnya juga sambil mikirin kegalauan hati #tsah , bakalan praktekin apa yang dia dapet. Kemampuan mereka bakal bertambah karena pengalaman (mempraktekan). Buat mentor yang nganggep mentoring cuma sesuatu yang harus diselesaikan bukan di maksimalkan manfaatnya, bakal lebih prepare dan punya arah yang jelas.

Intinya sistem itu batang pohon, ide itu air hujan, dan etos kerja itu pupuk nya.

Kalo daunnya mau banyak, ya buat masing masing 33.3333%

Kalo buahnya mau banyak, ya buat masing masing 100%

Makanya saya bilang caleg butuh mentoring juga. Misalnya distance 'mentoring' learning dari program para gubernur/ walikota yang kreatif itu; Pak Jokowi, Bu Risma, Pak Ganjar, Pak Ridwan Kamil, de el el.

 Biar kebuka horizonnya, ga sempit kaya kamar kos #curhat.

Words

The British Council conducted a survey of 102 non-english speaking country
About what was the most beautiful english word in the world
What do you think took first place?


Its Mother,

Followed by Passion, Smile, Love and Eternity.

Eternity belongs to after life. Every one dream about heaven but only some prepare for it.

Love is the prize of a game named Life.

Smile treasured by strong people. Because weak people can't smile eventhough they in not so hard situation.

Passion is a starter to do any positive things.

Mother, is what she is for me. The one I pray eternity in heaven. The one smiles in the happy or strenous time. Wearing passion as her clothes to have a better life for family. Giving love trough the hard days.

Mother is what I dream to be in the near future

Fear

There are days when we fear a lot
Mind full of anxiety

But let me tell you

Fear is much better than regret
For not doing something when we are older,
For not giving it a try,

Turn your fear into shots of adrenaline

Surround your self with gazillion brilliant people

When you lose your way they will spark you with new positive energy

They will become a gentle reminder of what your purpose of living a life



Photo source

Literally

As the season sheltering another wind
Cloud left to shade its new master
Wheel of life turn rotated
She know sometime things bitter

But,
God never unfair to begin with

She was holding what she promise
Head bloody but unbowed

One thing she believe
God will embrace
And lift
At the right time

Rain (part 2)

I was never really mind you
Until that afternoon, when I lied flat on my back in the bedroom
Gazed away through the window in to the gloomy sky
So was you came

It was dry and I was thirst
You smelled so good, so right
Like earth, like sky, like grass, like Mother Nature
And without I realized, I missed you so much

That time I adore you
Up until now
Still
Always delighted when I see you
Day, or night, or morning
You made me pray and sing a lot

I want to receive you when other can't
I want to drenched in you when other avoid
I want to smile to you when other frown

Because Summer will forever need Rain

Photo Source

Work Out

Sports not only for people who have time guys, really, or money. You should squeeze your schedule to slip once or twice sports within a week, and thats enough (for a beginner). As for money, if you dont have any problem to dig your pocket deeper, then please use gym please, beside complete sport equipments they have many exciting classes like body jumping, aerobic, combat, and so many on.

Time really matter for some people, especially worker, or 'hey..catch up your final assignment deadline!' students, or housewife with growing active childs, actually time matter for all people. If you are a worker and saturated enough with 8 hour per day thus need full weekend for full hibernate like squirell in winter, well thats what I was. That was so efortlessly happy. But thats why I got effortlessly flowing cholesterol and extreme declining blood pressure in return. Fair.

Jogging

At least once a week reserved your time for jogging. Change your habit gradually, for instance if you used to wake up at 9 am on sunday, then wake up at 7 and start jogging, swimming, or gym. Slowly you will be able to wake up at 6 and further more at 5. Start with 1 K non stop jogging, then you can walk as long as you can. By the time goes improve to 2 K withouth stop and try to apply 1.30 minutes run, 2 minutes walk (repeated) until reaching 5 K in total (my friend taught me about this).

If you have low blood pressure, the key is, dont force yourself. Sometime you dont fathom your limit, and suddenly all you can see just grey turning black with nausea stomach. If you feel the signal that your body cant bear more, dont force it, walk, adjust your breath, and find sweet drinks, it can help your blood glucose rise and you wont black out. Just know your limit.

If money become problem for you to practise to the gym, does your city provide car free day every sunday. Does your city have 'money free day' spot like lake or city park nearby your house. You can start find one then. My recommendation if you live in Jakarta is; CFD Sudirman, Kalibata Lake (beside Taman Makam Pahlawan) and Kelapa Gading Park, the last two mentioned have great jogging track/spots.

Dance

Many places offers interesting dancing class, such as body jumping, aerobic+belly dance, contemporary dance, hip hop, etc. Some of them available in the gym so its one package with what you pay in the beginning. But once again, if money something matter, than you can try online class from youtube, and do it in your room. Different with jogging, for me personally, dancing made me forgot my exhaustion. Find good song, and just move whatever you want, move like crazy, hair drenched, and floor wetted.

Here is my recommendation for hip hop, I think the beat is fun to dance with.

Sweat_Snop Dog feat David Guetta

Goodies_Ciara

Hi-Yah_Trish

S and M_Rihanna

And, one dance you should try. I love it much since step up 4. Its Contemporary!

They said its modern version of Ballet. For me, why its fun, is because you can express your self with in the slow music, you dont need skill, just move freely, flowing, slowly and feel the music.

The most favorite song to do this is...this

Ah, I should really join contemporary class this year.

New Year

Seharusnya saya belajar dari tadi.

Tes bahasa asing udah tinggal menghitung hari, bukan minggu lagi.

Harusnya saya tetap melanjutkan schedule awal, belajar lima chapter di Minna No Nihonggo, demi menyiapkan kata kata untuk free call via Line dengan teman di Jepang. Tapi..mungkin cerita bergambar manusia-manusia bertopeng ABO itu benar, karena salah satu diantara mereka dengan keahlian menunda pekerjaan dan terlambat dalam setiap janji (yang tidak terlalu membuatnya tertarik) adalah saya.

Siang ini, saya dengan mudahnya ter-distract oleh blogger kece yang memantik keinginan menulis saya. Entah tulisan ini akan berakhir di publish atau di draft bersama setumpuk tulisan lainnya karena tidak lolos tahap editing feeling dan image, uhum.

Karena saat membaca ini  saya teringat beratus-ratus kegagalan saya di bangku kuliah. Tiga tahun gagal segala macam kompetisi , sementara orang orang disekitar saya udah glowing dengan foto foto mereka bersanding bersama piala atau iconic place di luar negri. Ternyata semuanya karena Allah menyuruh saya bersabar, untuk satu moment di awal tahun 2012, untuk dua lomba yang saya impikan, untuk banyak pesawat dan hotel gratis, untuk senyum yang benar benar sampai ke mata tidak hanya di bibir saja.

Dan yang paling menohok dari tulisan itu adalah selisih 0.0.. untuk mendudukkan orang tua di kursi cumlaude, saya pikir cuma saya dan tiga orang temen sekelas lainnya yang peluk pelukan dengan mata mbrambang di depan ruang pengajaran setelah nerima selembar kertas bertuliskan IPK akhir. Ternyata, si mas penulis blog ini juga mengalami nasib yang sama, huahahaha.

Karena saat membaca ini saya sangat merasa jleb jleb. Awalnya saya tertarik karena judul nya, anti-mainstream. Yeah, I am the one who like cross current thingy. Apa yang saya sukai kadang bagi orang lain itu aneh, dan saya gampang memutuskan ga suka sama sesuatu karena terlalu mainstream. Eh, ternyata isinya…lebih dari yang saya ekspektasikan. It’s the whole things I’ve been thinking so hard this years.

“Life could be simple but you never fail To complicate it every single time”

-Blame it on the girl-

2014 bakalan dateng 8 jam lagi, resolusi lama yang waktu itu saya sebutin di kamar diantara permainan truth and dare sama temen temen kuliah yang stay over di rumah sudah tercapai.

Alhamdulillah saya keluar negeri lagi tahun ini.

Resolusi tahun depan sudah terpikirkan setelah hampir setahun penuh saya benar benar kehilangan keinginan dan mimpi. I was lost my way tapi saya juga belajar banyak hal.

Semuanya hanya membutuhkan waktu. Semua mimpi mimpi kita memiliki waktu masing masing untuk terwujud, semua pertanyaan kita akan terjawab pada waktunya, Tuhan telah menyiapkan waktunya.

See you soon (my dreams in) 2014

For Lea

I just knew we have the same day, and did the same thing

Happy Same day for us
The day when we getting older
The day we escape somewhere right after that

Hope next year everything gonna be better for us
I want to smile to the world like you, wanna cheer like you
You are great, and I will do great too

Thanks for being so inspiring =)